It’s just a little white lie, right?

      It all starts out with a white lie but sooner or later we tend to say that white lie more often. That little white lie that we thought wouldn’t harm any one just harmed our self thousands of times worse then of what you would ever expect. It just damages your trust with that person you said that little white lie too. A trust can break in a second while it can take years to rebuild and if worse comes to worse never.
      By saying that white lie we thinks it’s okay to lie. I mean after all it is just a white little lie. But the truth is that  the more white lies we tell they end up stop being white lies and become lies. Lies that we are uncontrolled of, we say them out of habit out of reflex to cover the mess we have done. Instead of dealing with the consequences, telling a lie has become easier. What we don’t realizes that it is eating us inside, by constant worrying for someone to find out.
    So in the long run telling the truth is better, sure you will have to deal with the consequences but if you lie you will have to deal with the consequences of your actions, the lost of someone’s trust and the worrying for some one to find out.    

So no it’s not just a little white lie.

xxx
Linni


At: London,close to south bank university   photographer: Linni


don’t think about yesterday, don’t talk about tomorrow, just live for today

Now you probably wonder what I mean by that. Let me explain it to you piece by piece.
 
   “Don’t think about yesterday”
 Why should we spend time thinking of what has been , what has been done and what if? We get so caught up by the past that we forget about living now, we just can’t seem to move on. It’s then when you are in the dangerous zone. Now you have to say to your self, there is a reason why things happen and why it’s not the same right now. There is no reason questioning what if? I might seem harsh but that’s the truth . Like I said before it’s a reason for it.
 
   “ Don’t talk about tomorrow”

   Quoting the author Paulo Coelho “ if you go around promising what you do not yet have you will loose the will of achieving it” He is right, why go around thinking of the future and give empty promises. I’m not saying you might not feel that way. As the time changes so does everything else to. Since no one can predict the future, we all should just live and see what happens. All though , if you want something really bad it will go your way. The future is what you make it. If you want something , make it happen. Don’t go around giving “empty promises”.

  “Just Live for today”
   I am not saying , live today like it’s your last day. What I’m saying is that don’t let the future and the past be any obstacles for your life.

xxx
Linni
At:the resturant in Ankara called Quick China  Photographer: Linni

Coffee beans

In life bad things will happend to you, that is just reality and it's up to you how you want to deal with it. We all deal with reality differently and sometimes it's hard to accept that reality. We close our eyes and pretend like it doesn't exist at all. We all also know that isn't good. It's just builds up and in the end it all just falls apart.
Then we have to remember that what has happend to us is also what makes us and the process going through that. It's kinda like coffeebeans it takes many coffebeans to make coffee and it's messy but in the end it turn out so good and it's so relaxing and calms you down and give you that energy you need. So what I'm trying to say is , don't pretend that bad stuff isn't there instead deal with it and get your own coffee! :)
xxx
Linni

Photographer: Linni

Forever,Endless





Tomorrow will come
 A heart will break
A soul will escape
Suddenly we all seem so fake,
by running away Humanity shows its flaws
 And one can see what we really are
A life is what it is-
Forever, Endless

xxx
written by Linni

At: Gamla Stan Photographe: Linni


OMG, It's karma!

 
          We all know that feeling, that light bulb that comes up after we got hurt. After a while when we think really deeply to what have happened to us we start to think of what we have done before. We girls have a tendency to think too much sometimes, analyzing every single move. So are we just being paranoid? Or is it really karma?
        Well we all know that what goes around comes around, but does that mean that we have to get twice as hurt or do we actually feel what the person we hurt felt? Does it mean that the person that hurt us will get hurt too? Is karma a vicious cycle?
          It can feel sometimes that we get hurt twice as much but honestly, one cannot measure pain. What is pain for me might not be for you. So yes we probably feel what they felt when we hurt them. We love when karma happens to someone else, but when it happens to us we don’t really understand it’s karma. We just know that karma will happen to them which give us some kind of comfort. Therefore karma is a vicious cycle that never seems to break.
         Instead of making karma a vicious cycle, let it be a lesson to all of us. Let it teach us not to hurt someone as they hurt us. Let us not hope that karma will happen to them who hurt us. When we are hurt as human beings we hope that they will at least ones feel what we felt so they could understand how much it hurt. Then the question is why would you want someone to go through what you went through? When you know how much you got hurt and what that did to you.
Don’t be a hater, be a lover ;)
xxx
Linni

Photographer: Linni

Seasons that made us numb

Today the first snowflake has fallen down

breathing the cold air in and out for now.

Once again an other season has come

Still we haven't forgot what made us numb.


Falling on the road that turned into ice.

We were too young to know, the lake froze that night.

Eyes closed and we still see the August tree.

Memories don't go away , we aren't free.


Now awake through this December night

The white blanket covered our sight

Waiting for the next season to come

Seasons that made us numb.

written by Linni

xxx
At: Gamla Stan Photographer: Linni


Changing the pattern

When we keep on doing the same thing over and over isn't it time for us to change the pattern? Does that then mean changing who we are? When being our self becomes a poison that only damages our self.   

            Changing our pattern to be honest is a bit like changing who we are and it is obvious that is something we do that is not working. It does not mean changing our entire self it just means that maybe a certain behavior our way of mindset needs to be change. In life these are roads we will have to go and we find out things that do not work and we try out new things, and really that is how we work in society anyway. When one door closes we try an other one right?

             It's not often we notice these pattern or we just choose to ignore it. It's when we ignore we know that we have to break the pattern. In the end ignoring it will just make it worse and can go even further then we expected.   When we have not notice the pattern it has not become such a strong pattern that is need to be broken, yet however there is a chance it will get there or hopefully it even will break on its own.

            Changing a pattern is hard it's almost like breaking a habit. To change a pattern you will have to have the will, determination and action.

Will: To be able to do something you have to have the will to do it. With out the will you wont get anywhere in life. It's by wanting something everything begins.

Determination: Is when you decide of what to do and set up the goals you need. By having a determination you set up a deal with your self, a contract that cannot be broken.

Action: Actually do what you want and what you are determent to do. You might want something you might even set up goals but that is worth nothing unless you actually pull through with it.
At: London Photographer: Linni
xxx
Linni


tree of spring



The wind moves in silence, hard to notice

Yet spring is here and you still soulless.

The flower lost its smell and you your color

Pouring rain came down on your shoulder.


You are hiding behind the tree of spring  

Waiting for the stable summer to sing

and you got tired to wait for the sun

 but there is no reason for you to run.


June isn't far away, and I am here to stay

Now to hold both of our hands to pray

And after the night, when spring became summer

And then I knew that you were my thunder.
at: kuğlu park// Ankara Photographer: Linni
xxx
 written by Linni


Stop being who you where and become who you are

    "Stop being who you where and become who you are" That is what the great author Paulo Coelho said.  We all change and we never really stay the same whether it is for the better or for worse. It often depends from our experiences and how we dealt with them.  

    Sometimes we do not even recognize that we have changed. We try so hard to be the person who we used to be that we sooner or later in our attempt of being who we once were loose our self along the way. Is then questions like who am I? What am I doing? This is not me comes up.

      Accepting or understanding the new you can be hard though you can not recognize you're self.  It's then one have to stop and think which path in life is it that I'm taking? Is this really who I want to be? I believe that one can not go back to the one who we once was, however one can change the path one is going towards.

at: Skansen  photographer: Linni


xxx
Linni

RSS 2.0