linnismind

There are those little things in life that makes us come alive when everything is dead. A kiss from someone you love when you are a sleep, a laughter from a child or a hug from your mom.  When it tend to get that bad that we forget those little things that make us happy, we  then isolate ourselves from the world and our surroundings. Suddenly those little things that made us happy are not visible. It seems like  we are in a dead-end.  It is when we feel like that it is important to bring back those happy memories, those little things that just give our life a better meaning. We cannot sit down and feel sorry for ourselves, life does not work that way.  Whenever you feel like the world is falling think of those little things that makes your life worth living.

When things  are going good everybody wants to take credit for it, however when things go let say wrong or bad no one want to take the responsibility for it. So who do we blame when things does not turn out the way it should? God, Husband/wife, parents, siblings ,friends or  maybe even ourselves? The key point is here to not blame anyone, not even yourself.  By blaming someone else or even yourself you are not able to move on. You are not ready to go on with your life. You are instead stuck in a place with anger, sadness, and disappointment.  To be able to actually move one you first have to forgive and accept the situation as it is. ( You probably think sarcastically yes, because that is such an easy thing to do)  What you also have to understand  is  that this is a process and you have to let it take time , it can take up to several years but you have to work it through. They say time heals all wounds, well it may be a cliché but it is true.   During that time you will have setbacks, you will fall but you have to manage to come up again. Your life is too valuable for you to just waste it. No matter what happens.  It is important to remember that God would not give you anything you would not be able to handle, he has faith in you so you have to have it too.  Believe in yourself and do not underestimate your strength, you are stronger then you think.

// L